Divorce effects on our lives
Our Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said;;Any woman who asks her husband for a divorce when it is no absolutely necessary, the fragrance of paradise will be forbidden to her.
Divorce is the termination or finish or canceling of a marriage. Divorce laws are different from country to country.Divorce is not a pleasant experience. We ruined each other and destroyed each other’s dreams by divorce. Divorce is one of the most stressful life event.
Divorce in Quran
From a reading of the Quran we learn that God does not favour divorces and in fact encourages the continuation of marriage. God has imposed prohibitions on certain category(divorce) in marriage.
The Quran says:
(1) Wives have the same rights as the husbands have on them in accordance with the generally known principles. Of course, men are a degree above them in status.
(2)O you who believe, if you married believing women, then divorced them before having intercourse with them, they do not owe you any waiting interim (before marrying another man). You shall compensate them equitably, and let them go amicably.
(3)Those who die and leave wives, their widows shall wait four months and ten days (before they remarry). Once they fulfill their interim, you commit no error by letting them do whatever righteous matters they wish to do. GOD is fully Cognizant of everything you do.
Divorced women(wife) have to be provide some facilities according to financial position of a man(husband).
(4)The rich husband shall provide support in accordance with his means, and the poor shall provide according to the means that GOD bestowed upon him. GOD does not impose on any soul more than He has given it. GOD will provide ease after difficulty.
Men are the protectors and women are maintainers,both should fulfil their duties honestly.
Expert opinion
Some experts contend that the easing of divorce laws has helped make marriage stronger by rooting. I think a modern marriage as an institution of love. But when love ends, all is gone and start of canceling of marriage. Some divorced couples find that time apart leads to getting back together.About one-third of divorced couples find themselves turning to each other.
Effects of divorce on children
Kids suffer when moms and dads split up. More than 30 years of research continues to reveal that divorce has negative effects on children.Children from divorced homes suffer academically. They experience high levels of behavioral problems. Children in divorced homes are almost live in poverty than children with married parents.Divorced homes children are generally engage in drug and alcohol use, as well as sexual intercourse. Their parents didn't think they would get involved in these things. But it is fact that children suffer more difficulties and problems after parents' divorce.
Children from divorced homes experience illness and recover from sickness more slowly.Emotional scars of divorce last into adulthood. Divorce is no small thing to children. Children carry this emotional damage for 30 years or more. Divorce is s not an easy out for you and your kids. It is a great loss. It is like a grief that is never over. Boys and girls react differently to their parents' divorce. As a rule, girls become anxious and withdrawn, while boys become more aggressive and disobedient.
In addition, divorce or talaq is a most ugly thing of this lovely world.
Our Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said;;Any woman who asks her husband for a divorce when it is no absolutely necessary, the fragrance of paradise will be forbidden to her.
Divorce is the termination or finish or canceling of a marriage. Divorce laws are different from country to country.Divorce is not a pleasant experience. We ruined each other and destroyed each other’s dreams by divorce. Divorce is one of the most stressful life event.
Divorce in Quran
From a reading of the Quran we learn that God does not favour divorces and in fact encourages the continuation of marriage. God has imposed prohibitions on certain category(divorce) in marriage.
The Quran says:
(1) Wives have the same rights as the husbands have on them in accordance with the generally known principles. Of course, men are a degree above them in status.
(2)O you who believe, if you married believing women, then divorced them before having intercourse with them, they do not owe you any waiting interim (before marrying another man). You shall compensate them equitably, and let them go amicably.
(3)Those who die and leave wives, their widows shall wait four months and ten days (before they remarry). Once they fulfill their interim, you commit no error by letting them do whatever righteous matters they wish to do. GOD is fully Cognizant of everything you do.
Divorced women(wife) have to be provide some facilities according to financial position of a man(husband).
(4)The rich husband shall provide support in accordance with his means, and the poor shall provide according to the means that GOD bestowed upon him. GOD does not impose on any soul more than He has given it. GOD will provide ease after difficulty.
Men are the protectors and women are maintainers,both should fulfil their duties honestly.
Expert opinion
Some experts contend that the easing of divorce laws has helped make marriage stronger by rooting. I think a modern marriage as an institution of love. But when love ends, all is gone and start of canceling of marriage. Some divorced couples find that time apart leads to getting back together.About one-third of divorced couples find themselves turning to each other.
Effects of divorce on children
Kids suffer when moms and dads split up. More than 30 years of research continues to reveal that divorce has negative effects on children.Children from divorced homes suffer academically. They experience high levels of behavioral problems. Children in divorced homes are almost live in poverty than children with married parents.Divorced homes children are generally engage in drug and alcohol use, as well as sexual intercourse. Their parents didn't think they would get involved in these things. But it is fact that children suffer more difficulties and problems after parents' divorce.
Children from divorced homes experience illness and recover from sickness more slowly.Emotional scars of divorce last into adulthood. Divorce is no small thing to children. Children carry this emotional damage for 30 years or more. Divorce is s not an easy out for you and your kids. It is a great loss. It is like a grief that is never over. Boys and girls react differently to their parents' divorce. As a rule, girls become anxious and withdrawn, while boys become more aggressive and disobedient.
In addition, divorce or talaq is a most ugly thing of this lovely world.